Hi everyone,
I'm looking for advice and strategies to defend myself against false allegations from an ex-partner who I believe is undiagnosed with BPD.
One minute we're celebrating each others' birthdays, the next I'm being harrassed by her parents and an IVO taken against me, preventing my infant son from seeing me. I can see she has been lying and gaslighting me to her parents, et al, but I was really taken aback by the lies in the application for an IVO. The application was made final as my lawyer didn't want me to contest even though I did nothing wrong.
I'm trying to not see myself as a victim here and instead am looking to be proactive for my son while looking after myself.
So, apart from keeping a diary, I'm looking into whether ensuring my phone is always geolocating my location. Is there anything else I could try? I suppose I'm an equal measure scared of being accused of something else, and very keen to develop coutneractive strategies.
Thanks in advance!