Hey @Casper44 ,
Good on you for reaching out. It takes a lot of strength to reach out to people. This is probably a great starting point to help you with some of the challenges you are going through.
For me, I had PTSD, insomnia, anxiety and depression. I was one of the luckier ones who managed to get therapy through the public system. However, much of the work was also done on these forums. As a regular member seeking help, these forums allowed me to normalise my mental health and gave me the opportunity to start opening up.
Early on in my MH recovery, every time I saw a therapist, I couldn't say anything. I just cried. It was so hard. And then I stopped therapy because I just wasn't ready.
When I reached my early 30s, I realised I wasn't getting anywhere in life. I ended up being admitted to a prevention and recovery centre (PARC) and for the first time, I felt free to talk about my experiences. It was so liberating. Since then, I re-engaged in therapy, had more admissions into PARC, connected with members on the forums, reached out to others, and pretty much I haven't gone back since.
I am on medication so the hospital sorted out my meds. That took some time to get it right.
SANE has a Guided Service which is free of charge if you are interested and eligible. You can check if you are eligible here: https://www.sane.org/referral
Please know you are not alone. Allow yourself to feel. And allow yourself to heal.