Hi @Squizzle and welcome to the forums!
It can be really hard to find someone that you click with and it can be quite a process to get there. As part of our guidelines around anonymity, members can't recommend specific professionals however members that come through here can help offer advice on the ways they went about finding good supports or any organisations they may have used to help find someone.
Keep reaching out, we are all here to help you feel supported in your journey 😊