25-08-2016 11:15 PM
25-08-2016 11:15 PM
Reading your post is heart breaking, esp.....
"Shame and self loathing make up my self esteem, mixed with those general feelings of anger, frustration, irritability, distress, sadness and simply overwhelmed."
I feel you have put into words what my parntner is unable to tell me, as I watch him become more isolated each day.
If i ask him if he is ok or needs something, then i am "watching" him "waiting for him to fail", nothing could be further from the truth.
I am sorry you are alone.
26-08-2016 08:13 PM
26-08-2016 08:36 PM
26-08-2016 08:36 PM
Hello, i am better today, as it was a little better for my partner, thank you for asking
And how are you?
27-08-2016 05:30 AM
27-08-2016 05:30 AM
28-08-2016 10:40 AM - edited 28-08-2016 10:50 AM
28-08-2016 10:40 AM - edited 28-08-2016 10:50 AM
I'm very humbled by the replies I've received to this post. I'm amazed that it has “resonated” with some of you. I also feel sad that others have suffered like I have.
I’m familiar with Russ Harris, I’ve read happiness trap but not the reality slap. Worth a go thanks @Former-Member.
I’m a bit of a veteran in the MH system and know the ACT, CBT, meditation, mindfulness, counselling, antidepressants and I’m terrible at self compassion, I feel like bashing myself half the time.
@Princessmolly thank you for reaching out. You sound like a sensitive and compassionate person. Thanks for your genuine care and concern.
Thanks to every single one of you that have taken the time to reply. Your kind words, advice and personal stories have not gone unnoticed. At least I know that some people do care.
I live in a medium sized town in country, NSW. Population of close to 30,000 people. I’ve previously lived in 3 other areas with my mental illness and my current area is by far the worst place I’ve lived for mental health professionals. Or perhaps it’s just because I’m getting older so, like I said in the original post, they say to themselves "what’s the point?".
I have reached out to numerous people who work in the mental health system (including psychologists), and the silence has been deafening from some, and the others clearly have no clue of what it’s like to have mental illness and I wonder for what reasons they are in their position.
I personally sit here and a “theme song” to all this plays in my mind. Disturbed - The Sound Of Silence. I know it’s a Simon and Garfunkel song but disturbed’s version “resonates” with me best. I think they should build a mental illness marketing campaign around this song. To educate everyone! Those with mental illness, those who have never experienced it and those “mental health professionals” that work in the system. People are too quick to blame, criticise and judge.
People need to try more empathy, compassion, vulnerability and understanding.
The sounds of silence seems to fit for so many reasons.
02-03-2017 09:47 PM
02-03-2017 09:47 PM
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