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daisy20202-7
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friends

hi there

 
was wondering whats the best way to find friends close to where you live and how to maintain the friendships and where you could go with friends or how you could have them over if theres not alot of room where you currently live?
 
also whats the best way to find a girl to do the usual girlfriend things with without having to share money and stuff or have kids or live together 24/7?
 
reason for asking is looking to make a few more friends similar age to me (33) to supplement the friends that have moved away or are busier now even though youre still friends.
 
in 2015 used to go to see cousins and spend a weekend, that was 5 years ago and since 2016 havent been able to go up unless someone took me even though driving yourself was never a problem, as car needed alot of work and mean alot. and other things got in way and they all started having kids at once.
 
in middle of 2018 got a bit younger car to drive everyday and parked the other one and fixing it up and its only since then that you can start thinking of driving yourself up again and now its harder to catch up due to kids even though its not impossible, for the cars usually most people if they want to keep a car past a point or have a old one they will either take it off road and fix everything broken and buy a decent bomb to run around in till theirs is fixed then maybe sell it once the original ones fixed or they will have a back up daily or theyll stop driving it everyday buy a newer one for that, then do old one up.
 
also how do you meet girls and where do you go and how do you start talking to them when you work most weekends when most usually have it and holidays off and only work standard week days. looking for intimicy and to be able to do the other girlfriend things but don't want kids or to share money and stuff (whatever couples usually share) there is a difference between occasionally sharing stuff and the things couples usually share, or to live together 24/7.
 
and some of us are happy single and just keeping eyes open and waiting for right girl that wants same things.
 
dont really want to be travelling 2 hours or more and return once a week or more just for it to happen.
 
what else can be done
 
 
thanks
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Re: friends

hello @daisy20202-7 , thinking of you today , how are you going xx

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